benefits of going freelance<\/a>.<\/p>\nWhen Maria Laly had her first child in 2010, going freelance seemed like the smart option.<\/p>\n
She was the health editor of a magazine and loved her job, but the nursery costs in her South London postcode (\u00a370 a day), plus the 6pm pick-up time that would have seen Maria having to leave work an hour early each day, sealed the deal.<\/p>\n
Going freelance meant Maria wouldn\u2019t have to rush myself and my new baby out the door each day. So She hired a part-time nanny (for a fraction of the \u00a3350-a-week nursery costs), who came to her house when Maria needed to work; and worked around nap times and in the evening too.<\/p>\n
When Maria told friends, whose jobs in law or nursing meant they had to be in a workplace each day, face crippling nursery fees and do the mad pick-up dash, they envied her.<\/p>\n
But as the years went on and after another child in 2013, Maria started to realise her seemingly cosy freelance set up was anything but.<\/p>\n
Because she worked from home and her husband commuted into his office job in London, it fell to Maria to do the school drop-offs and pick-ups, preparing lunches, and putting washing on.<\/p>\n
And when she stopped working at 5 or 6pm, Maria made dinner, helped with homework, did bath time and bedtime stories, and then picked up her laptop at 9pm to spend another hour or so working on the sofa.<\/p>\n
Maria didn’t have any colleagues to chat to or bounce ideas off, or bosses to mentor and guide me. She didn’t have a company pension or sick pay, and during school holidays she had to look after the children all day and then work all evening.<\/p>\n
Far from living the freelance dream, Maria had fallen into the freelance trap.<\/p>\n
So she wasn\u2019t surprised to read a study this week that found women who work from home also do more childcare.<\/p>\n
According to German researchers, the freelance boom, which has seen more of us than ever working flexibly from home, has backfired on freelancing mothers by entrenching old-fashioned gender roles at home.<\/p>\n
In other words, while freelancing mothers are bringing home the bacon, they\u2019re frying it too. And washing up afterwards.<\/p>\n
The researchers found that fathers are more likely to remain office-based after having children, which leaves mothers who work from home with a \u201cdouble burden\u201d. Mothers who work the same number of hours as their other halves are spending three more hours on childcare per week than the father.<\/p>\n
Yvonne Lott, an expert on gender and working hours who worked on the study, found that while the amount of time the average working mother spends caring for her children has barely fallen (from 22.5 hours a week in 2001 to 21 hours in 2016), the time for working fathers has barely risen: 8.6 hours a week in 2016, compared with 7.3 in 2001.<\/p>\n
As Dr Lott says:<\/p>\n
\u201cFathers use working from home and self-determined working hours exclusively to put in markedly more time on the job. When they work from home they work on average for two extra hours a week. With flexitime they even invest a little less time in looking after their children."<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Maria warns new mothers considering going freelance for the flexibility and freedom: don’t let the have-it-all dream become a do-it-all nightmare.<\/p>\n
In short, don’t fall into the freelance trap.